Archive for the 'self-injury' Category

February 22, 2008

“Body obsession is a distraction from the more important aspects of self,” explains Dr. Linda Mintle, licensed clinical psychologist. “Outer beauty is only a facade that often hides the deeper character issues of a person.”

Nancy Alcorn has written a series of books on addiction, cutting, sexual abuse, and eating disorders. She works with girls seeking help for each of these in a nationally-recognized residential ministry called Mercy House. In her new book, Starved: Mercy for Eating Disorders, Alcorn offers faith-based hope for those needing freedom from eating disorders. She identifies the root issues connected with an eating disorder and offers practical principles that can be applied to bring restoration and lasting freedom.

For more information about Mercy ministries, click here.

Filed under: real quote, real review, self-injury

February 15, 2008

My daughter has been cutting off and on when she gets stressed since she was 11 and she is now 13. I have got her counseling and the counselor said she is fine. I have tried to talk to her and she says I don’t know how to say what I feel. She will hide it and deny it when you see a cut. When things are really bad though you will see 6-8 cuts in a row on the under side of her arm by her arm pit.We just got a call from the counselor at school to say that she is cutting again. She needs help but she isn’t asking for help. Do you have any good articles that my husband and I can read?  (more…)

Filed under: real issues, self-injury

February 12, 2008

Pick her up, God

by Brooke Giddens 

She thinks she’s cool doing drugs and partying every night
My only prayer is that she will one day see the light
she hides under her make up and black hair
Somedays I wonder if she even really cares
She seems so happy with such and awful life,
But sometimes I wonder if she thinks of death by knife
She says she used to cut herself, but she stopped this year.
Her stories pain me and nearly bring me to tears.
I want to say, “Why Lord have you given me so many blessings?
When this girl has nothing.
I invite her to church, but she doesn’t want to come.
She says last time she went the congregation all made fun,

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Filed under: faith in action, Guest Writers, real poem, self-injury

October 9, 2007

 Self-injury is a growing topic among teens and twentysomethings, but especially among young teen girls. Jan Kern addresses cutting and other forms of self-injury by sharing the story of a girl who once self-injured. Scars That Wound, Scars That Heal is a inside look at self-injury.

It’s compassionate. It’s in-depth with quotes and insight from those who self-injure(d), those who love them, and those who are professionals in the field.

Kern takes it a step deeper by addressing the spiritual need that someone who is cutting may need to hear–God loves you and He’s not going anywhere just because you struggle with self-injury.

This is an excellent resource for pastors, youth pastors, parents, youth staff, and those who self-injure and want to find their way out.

Five Stars!

Filed under: real review, self-injury

August 16, 2007

I wanted to ask your advice. I haven’t cut in two years, and yet my arms are still so so scarred. The entire surface is uneven. I’ve not worn short sleeves since I started cutting. I am SO ashamed. I need help knowing how to be able to look at my own arms, and how to wear short sleeves again. I need help. I don’t know what to do. God bless you. — Tamara

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Filed under: real word, self-injury, real advice

June 28, 2007

Hi, I read your article. I self injure myself probably every month or two, but lately I have been doing it more and more. I am a Christian, and I go to church.

One of my best friends saw my arm this week and freaked out, now she isn’t talking to me. She is a member of my church. She is the one I usually go to for help. My family is never around, and I am afraid what they may do. I cut/scratch myself to calm myself in times of panic. I don’t know what to do. I’ve prayed. but I am losing hope in myself, but that makes me do the habit more.

I would go to someone of my church, but I try so hard to be accepted there, I don’t know what others would think  of me. I don’t know what to do. -Lindsay

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Filed under: self-injury, real advice

February 12, 2007

~Real Question~

I know God loves me, but I’m going through a really rough time right now, and it feels like God isn’t with me anymore, and every day the urge to cut myself gets stronger. I know I shouldn’t, and I’m trying to resist, but i’m afraid that someday (soon) the pain is going to get so bad that I will. What do I do?

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Filed under: self-injury, real advice

November 15, 2006

We receive a lot of e-mails from teens asking difficult questions about things like self-injury, eating disorders, and addiction. Most are from beautiful young women wanting a better life.

We don’t pretend to have all the answers. We listen. We look to scripture. We pray. But we also love to share resources of those who are equipped to handle the need.

I recently found about Mercy Ministries of America.

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