real advice: double crush

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Dear Halee,

So I’m in high school and I have a huge crush on two amazing guys. They’re both really awesome guys and great Christians. Problem is, I don’t know which one I like more. But now, one of the guys is in a relationship with one of my friends. When I found this out, my stomach just dropped and everything around me just stopped. Does that mean I like him? I don’t know what to do.

~ Tara*

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Hey Tara,

That’s definitely a tough situation! I can understand how frustrating that is. I think you owe it to yourself and these two guys (and the friend who is dating one of them) to be sure of your feelings before you do or say anything.

Maybe this will help clarify things a little bit. Think about these questions and see which guy comes to mind: (more…)

real video: you are not an activist

Okay. We admit it. Mondays kinda suck. So to make your Monday less sucky, check out this video. It’ll make you laugh. It’ll make you think. Not bad for a Monday.

real life: figuring stuff out

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By RTF Editor Abbie Miller

“So, what are you planning to do with your life?”

Yes, it had happened. Someone had asked me the worst question in the history of the universe. What am I planning to do with my life? Really?! Well, I was thinking I might waste a few years living on the streets, get arrested and try out the state prison, maybe become an alcoholic if I feel like it… (more…)

real thoughts: which way?

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by Editor Halee Matthews

The future. At this point in your life, it’s probably a word you’ve heard a lot. And that’s what we’re talking about this month. We’re going to highlight some careers you may want to consider. We’re going to help you figure out what you want to do and be. Because you’ve got a lot of decisions to make. Like are you going to go to college, and if yes, what will you major in? What are you going to do after high school or college? What career will you pursue?

That’s a lot of choices for someone who may not even be able to vote yet. (more…)

real word: abuse

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By RTF Editor Bekah Hamrick Martin

She walked past me last night. I could see it in her eyes. The little girl I used to be.

Secrets. Her eyes held secrets. Things she could admit to no one, least of all herself. (more…)

real cause: invisible children

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By Guest Writer Samuel Martin

I’m sure most of you have heard by now about the campaign to stop Joseph Kony. If you haven’t, let me give you the rundown:

Joseph Kony is a warlord in Uganda who kidnaps and brutalizes children for use in his army. The boys that is — the girls are used as sex slaves. (more…)

finding God in the dark

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By RTF Editor Bekah Hamrick Martin

Not now. Not again.

I thought this pain was in my rear view mirror… but suddenly it’s crashed through the windshield.

That’s agony. It will sneak up on you. Then it will stop you in your tracks.

Been there? (more…)

real advice: masturbation

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By RTF Editor Halee Matthews

Dear Halee,

How come I never see anything about how to stop masturbation? Is it not bad? And what is it, anyway?

~ Kelli* (more…)