real devo: fitting in

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By RTF Editor B.J. Hamrick

See the tall, gorgeous, light-haired, model-looking girls?

I’m not one of them.

No. I’m the one with the black hair. The short legs. The short arms.

The short… everything.

I don’t fit.

At least… not at first glance.

But I was chosen. Chosen to be a part of this family. My boy took one look at me, and he — the tall, gorgeous, light-haired, model-looking boy — picked me.

I used to conceal my differences. Not just on the outside… but on the inside.

I couldn’t let people know. I couldn’t tell them what I’d been through. I didn’t want to be judged. I didn’t want to stand out.

So I talked about trivial things. I shared about trivial experiences.

…I experienced trivial fulfillment.

Until I realized: I am chosen. In His greatness, my Life-Planner, Dream-Creator, Pain-Healer, and Heart-Fulfiller took one look at me – and picked me.

I am a part of His family. And even though my experiences look different on the outside, even though I will never be blonde-haired or blue-eyed, I am as much a part of this group as any genetic child.

My experiences stand out, yes.

But there is a reason for that.

So… what about you?

What are you holding back?

What’s the one thing you can’t let people know?

What makes you afraid of being judged?

Afraid to stand out?

Your heart belongs here. You were created different for a reason.

Will you dare to fulfill it?

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bj_ethanB.J. Hamrick is the editor of Real Teen Faith. She harasses the public daily at her new blog, Bare Naked Truth About Love.

5 Responses to “real devo: fitting in”


1 Sarah Rupp says: Jun 10, 2010 @ 2:55pm

aw =] I really like this, BJ! I love the anology.

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3 Abbie says: Jun 10, 2010 @ 8:03pm

Wow – loved what you said about talking about trivial things and experiencing trivial fulfillment. SO TRUE.

And those questions? I need to sit down and have a meeting with myself over each of them. Thank you for giving me a lot to think and pray about.

- Abbie

P.S. Love those dresses. Green and white floral prints make me swoon :)

4 Xochi Dixon says: Jun 12, 2010 @ 2:32am

I agree with Abbie. I love the part about experiencing “trivial fulfillment.” God wants to give us so much if we are only willing to open up every part of our lives to Him. Good job, sister!

5 BJ Hamrick says: Jun 13, 2010 @ 6:48pm

Thanks, Guys!

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