real story: the scar

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By RTF Editor B.J. Hamrick

The scar on your arm

Is only a clue

Of the scar inside

That once terrified you

The fear is gone

The scar remains

A reminder of loss

And the power of pain

Love is a man

With a scar on His arm

It runs deep like yours

He understands harm

The scar on His arm

Is only a clue

Of the scar inside

That He bears for you

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I wrote this several years ago for a friend when he told me he struggled with cutting himself.

At the time I didn’t tell him that I understood how he felt… I couldn’t even admit to myself that I struggled with self-harm.

Eventually the day came when I was ready to ask for help…

If I knew where he was today, I would tell my friend — you are not alone, and you can be free from this.

I know.

Your journey starts with finding a safe place to be vulnerable…

Contact me or Halee at realteenfaith[at]gmail[dot]com for more information.

8 Responses to “real story: the scar”


1 real story: the scar | SloppyNoodle.com says: Mar 4, 2010 @ 8:05am

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2 Debra Weiss says: Mar 4, 2010 @ 8:26pm

That’s beautiful. <3

3 Katie says: Mar 4, 2010 @ 9:01pm

wow, that’s powerful.

4 BJHamrick says: Mar 7, 2010 @ 10:05pm

Thanks, Debra and Katie!

5 Patricia says: Apr 21, 2010 @ 9:10pm

This is such a beautiful poem and i kno the feeling of it all to well its a stuggle i face everyday… asking for help is something so hard to do but its needed.. thank you for this :)

6 BJHamrick says: Apr 21, 2010 @ 9:56pm

Thanks for letting me know, Patricia. I didn’t see your e-mail address, but please feel free to contact me if I can do anything to help…

7 ChristianGirlForLife18 says: Apr 22, 2010 @ 9:54pm

srry i didn’t put my email… i wasn’t sure about commenting at first…i showed this poem to a friend and she thinks this is a really great poem..im still kinda figuring out all how to use this site but i really like the poems…aka Patricia…

8 halee matthews says: Apr 22, 2010 @ 10:12pm

Welcome, Patricia! We’re excited to have you here. =)

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